The family wended its
way in slow procession to the cemetery.
One small vehicle and a few loved ones, treading across the concrete and
grass, en route to the old Branford burial ground.
Upon their arrival it
was noticed how the once spacious plain, overlooking the reedy waters, was now
far more crowded with markers and headstones.
Each memorial in bronze or granite bore witness to the souls whose
footsteps once imprinted the soil and sidewalks of our town. Surely with every name and set of dates there
was a unique story of hopes and fears, triumphs and tragedies. Such is the truth of our potential and
predicament.
Finding a promising spot
with suitable grade and space, the first phase of the journey was
complete. The bike was then held steady
as the little girl climbed onboard. With
no forward motion, simply practicing the crucial maneuver of turning into a
tilt, the anxious four year old quickly found the confidence to attempt the as
yet, untried and unproven. Initially
held fast, the sturdy muscles in her legs tensed and flexed as the child,
formerly comforted by training wheels, pedaled strongly out of her father's
relenting grasp.
With their young one
gliding across the lawn, both mom and dad felt a surge of a potent and parental
mixture of pride and fear. It was the
formula of affection that would rise up time and again, from the first days of
Kindergarten, to the initial experience of college, and beyond.
Going some distance, and
quite beyond initial expectation, Niue settled
into an easy stop, leaping off the bike similar to a wrangler from a bound
calf. Alas, she had not been told how to
rest and remain still. Anxious to try
again, the rather ungainly bike was pushed and dragged back to the same point
of origin, with the same process started all over. This time with even better results.
Soon the enthusiastic
voyager was peddling the asphalt trail -- easier than the grass, but fraught
with more danger. With her dad's futile
attempt at running alongside, and mom somewhat near the eventual destination, Niue was very much on her own. Shouts of guiding encouragement filled the
air as the precocious pre-schooler rolled speedily down the narrow lane. Mysteriously upheld by the laws of physics,
both unmistakable and also un-mastered, the little one still concluded each
journey as if competing in a rodeo. Yet,
the moment was a great success and would rightfully take its place alongside
the similar memories attached to the early years of Amanda and Billy. Bumps and bruises must surely lie ahead, but
with them will come even more enduring freedom and satisfaction.
Challenged to meet, or
rather exceed, some unwritten, self-generated familial standard, Niue was most
curious to know if her early attempts had gone better than the ones of her
older and obviously perfect siblings.
Indeed, they had. They always
do. Subjective recollection is the
limitless fount of reassurance.
Thus
it was, amidst the metal and stone symbols of life's inexorable mortality, a
new chapter of promise and possibility was opened. In what some might see as a parkland of
despair and futility, an energetic child found a place of affirmation and
accomplishment.
In
this very spot, it was perceived symbolically and even more deeply that Jesus
does indeed make all things, and places, new.
A familiar path, once comforting, yet restricting, was left behind. In its place, an unknown, yet unlimited road
was opened up. It is not unlike the way
of eternal life, where all struggles will give way to success, and those who
fall, shall evermore be lifted up.
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